Lent will be here soon. It is time for us to consider what Lenten
practices we shall observe. Scripture advises three categories: prayer, penance, and almsgiving.
Attending Mass more frequently is the greatest act of worship. It is
wonderful to see an increased number of Catholics going to daily Mass during Lent. This includes business
people who use part of their lunch hour to attend Mass.
Other suggestions may include: daily rosary individually or as a family;
praying before Our Eucharistic Lord on hour a week; making the Stations of the Cross every day
or at least once a week; daily spiritual reading that leads us to talk to God from our hearts; going
to confession every couple of weeks; meditating on Our Lord's Passion for 10 - 15 minutes a day; studying
Scripture with family, friends and neighbors.
Almsgiving can certainly include: working at a local shelter to help feed
or clothe the poor; donating monetarily to charitable causes; donating blood to the Red Cross;
visiting those who are sick or elderly; spending time with someone who is hurting through the loss of a
child or spouse; giving some of your clothes to the poor.
When we think of doing penance for Lent, the usual comes to mind, i.e.,
giving up candy, gum, and movies. Other ideas may include: giving up smoking, drinking, watching
television, deserts; taking the stairs instead of the elevator; being prompt for appointments; doing our
work with extra attention; cleaning out the garage or attic; giving more of your time by becoming more
active in the pro-life movement. It has been said that one of the best things we can give others is
our time.
When Our Lady of Fatima appeared in Portugal in 1917 and asked for
prayers and penance, one of her suggestions was that we do our daily duties well. Doing everything we
do during the day as we should do them, can be a great penance. Getting up on time; not wasting
time; being patient with the kids (and spouse); keeping the house neat and clean; not gossiping; ceasing to be
an enabler; being courteous in traffic; holding a door for a person following you; praying before and
after meals; being pleasant when one doesn't feel like it. (The latter, by the way, is not being a hypocrite.
It is acting as a Christian should.)
In reality, we can become great saints simply by doing our ordinary daily
duties well. This is the whole spiritual message of St. Therese, the Little Flower. This was her
"Little Way."
I hope I've been able to give you some food for thought, dear reader. Certainly, all
possibilities are not exhausted here, but perhaps this article has given you a few ideas. It is
time to begin thinking about how we shall make this Lent a truly "Catholic" one.
You are in my heart and prayers. I ask to be in yours, as well.
God bless you!